Beyond Obedience The Podcast
88 | When You Love Your Dog… But Don’t Always Like Them
Hey Dog Lover, Apollo wasn’t the easiest dog to live with. He had a massive prey drive, a fearless attitude, and a knack for chaos — and honestly, there were days I didn’t even like him. But behind all that intensity… was one of the most fiercely loyal, deeply devoted dogs I’ve ever known. In this episode, I’m telling the story of Apollo — the dog who made me question everything I thought I knew about leadership, love, and what it means to accept the whole dog, not just the easy parts. We’ll explore:🐾 How I learned to stop “managing” Apollo’s intensity and start honouring it 🐾 Why the traits that frustrate us most are often signs of something deeper 🐾 What it looks like to lead a strong-willed, big-hearted dog with structure and respect If you’ve ever had a dog who made you feel like a failure… or tested your patience more than you care to admit… this story is for you. Because sometimes, the dog who challenges you the most is the one who loves you the hardest. Next Steps: Got a bold, high-energy dog like Apollo? Take the Dogonality™ Quiz to discover how to guide them with confidence — no treats or tricks required. 👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz Be sure to share your quiz results with other dog lovers in our Free Facebook Community Living Beyond Obedience Music credit: Shawn Trotter of shawntrotter.com
3 4月 2025 - 33 분 35 초
Celebrating Our Dogs’ Cultures (Totally Legit, Not at All Made Up)
Hey dog lover! 🐾 Have you been unintentionally denying your dog’s cultural identity? In this episode, we explore the surprisingly overlooked world of honouring your dog’s roots—whether that’s through themed meals, heritage-based enrichment, or just a deeper understanding of who they really are. Because maybe the reason your dog is ignoring you… is cultural. Or maybe—it’s something else entirely. 😉 Hope you enjoy, Tracy NEXT STEPS: ✨ Want to understand your dog’s Dogonality™? Take the free quiz: www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz 💬 Ready to connect on a deeper level? Book a coaching session: www.beyondobedience.ca/session 🎶 Special thanks to Shawn Trotter for the music – www.shawntrotter.com (P.S. You might want to check the calendar... 😉 )
1 4月 2025 - 11 분 36 초
87 | Training Didn’t Work. No Tools, No Treats—Just This One Shift
Hey Dog Lover, What do you do when your dog couldn’t care less that you exist? Jayce was one of the most confident, independent dogs I’ve ever worked with — and for the first few days we lived together, I was just the dope at the end of the leash. He didn’t want my attention, my approval, or my connection. But one weird little moment — involving a frog and a puddle — shifted everything. In this episode, I’m sharing the full story of my time with Jayce and the powerful lesson he taught me about relevance , leadership , and the quiet magic that happens when we stop trying to matter… and start showing up. You’ll hear:🐾 What it’s like to live 24/7 with a dog who couldn’t care less about you 🐾 How I stopped chasing connection and started earning it 🐾 Why being invited into your dog’s world is more powerful than any command or cue This one’s for every dog lover who’s ever felt ignored, invisible, or unimportant in their dog’s eyes. You are not alone — and this story might just change how you see your dog forever. Next Steps: Not sure what kind of dog you’re living with? Start by taking the Dogonality™ Quiz to better understand your dog’s unique personality and how to connect on their terms. 👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz Music credit: Shawn Trotter of shawntrotter.com
31 3月 2025 - 43 분 04 초
86 | How to Be the Leader Your Dog Needs (without Treats or Tricks)
Hey Dog Lover, If you’ve ever wondered, “Why isn’t my dog listening?” or felt like you’re doing all the right things but still struggling to connect—this episode is for you. Because treats and tricks can only take you so far. The leadership style your dog really needs isn’t about obedience cues or bribery. It’s about trust, relevance, and understanding who they are at their core. And that’s where your dog’s Dogonality comes in. In this episode, I’m breaking down how to lead your dog based on their unique personality—without treats or gimmicks—just trust, understanding, and a whole lot of love. You’ll learn: 🐾 How to lead a Sensitive Soul (RB/I) who needs safety and gentle encouragement. 🐾 Why an Overwhelmed Runner (RB/E-U) needs you to handle threats and create calm. 🐾 How to become part of the adventure for a Fearless Explorer (RB/E-C) . 🐾 How to guide a Life of the Party (LB/E) with structured fun. 🐾 And why a Calm Thinker (LB/I) needs to know why you're worth following. Because leadership isn’t about controlling your dog. It’s about meeting them where they are and showing them you’re worth trusting, every single day. I hope you enjoy this episode! ❤️ Tracy P.S. Next Steps: Not sure what kind of leadership your dog needs? The Dogonality Quiz will show you exactly how they’re wired—so you can lead with calm confidence and build a bond that feels natural and effortless. 👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz And once you’ve taken the quiz, join the Living Beyond Obedience Group and share your results. Let’s celebrate those lightbulb moments together! 🎵 Music Credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com
27 3月 2025 - 25 분 41 초
85 | 3 Signs You Are Misunderstanding Your Dog and How to Fix it
Hey Dog Lover, Have you ever looked at your dog and thought, “Why are you doing that?” Maybe they freeze, ignore you, or even react in ways that leave you feeling frustrated or confused. It’s easy to assume they’re being stubborn, ignoring you, or just plain difficult. But what if it’s none of those things? What if it’s a misunderstanding? In this episode, I’m sharing the 3 most common signs that you might be misunderstanding your dog—and how a simple shift in perspective can change everything. We’ll talk about: 🐾 Why some dogs seem “stubborn,” when really, they’re feeling confused or unsure. 🐾 Why your dog might be ignoring you—and why it’s not personal. 🐾 How stress and uncertainty can look like aggression (and what to do instead). Because the truth is, every behavior is communication. And when you know how to really listen —through the lens of your dog’s Dogonality —you stop trying to fix behavior, and you start building trust. I hope you enjoy this episode! ❤️ Tracy P.S. Next Steps: Want to know how your dog naturally thinks, reacts, and connects? Take the Dogonality Quiz and discover how they’re wired—so you can meet them where they are and build a bond that feels easy and effortless. 👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz And once you’ve got your results, join the Living Beyond Obedience Group and share what you’ve learned. Let’s celebrate those lightbulb moments together! 🎵 Music Credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com
24 3月 2025 - 23 분 11 초
84 | The Key to a Beautiful Bond with Your Dog Starts Here:
Hey Dog Lover! 🐾 You love your dog—that part is easy. But the deep, beautiful bond where you just get each other ? That kind of connection doesn’t happen by chance. It happens when you understand who your dog really is at their core. Because here’s the truth: love is simple, but understanding is transformational. In this episode, we’re digging deep into what it really takes to build a bond that feels effortless and unshakable. We’ll explore: 🐾 Why training, treats, and time aren’t enough to create true connection. 🐾 How to move beyond surface-level bonding and connect on a deeper level. 🐾 How understanding your dog’s unique Dogonality can change everything—because when you know how your dog is wired, you stop fighting against their instincts and start working with them. 🐾 Why understanding your dog's Dogonality is the first step in learning how to be the reason and the reward in their life—creating a bond built on trust, leadership, and true connection. 💡 Whether your dog is a Sensitive Soul (RB/I), a Fearless Explorer (RB/E-C), or the Life of the Party (LB/E), this episode will help you uncover what they really need to feel safe, understood, and deeply connected to you. 🎯 Next Steps: Not sure how your dog is wired? That’s exactly why I created the Dogonality Quiz —to help you understand your dog’s unique personality and how to build a bond based on true trust and understanding. 👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz 🐾 And once you’ve taken the quiz, join the conversation in the Living Beyond Obedience Group and share your results! Let’s talk about how understanding your dog changes everything. Because when you truly see your dog for who they are, you don’t just change their world—you change yours too. ✨ Hope you enjoy this episode! Tracy 🎵 Music Credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com
20 3月 2025 - 24 분 50 초
83 | Is Your Dog Ignoring You or Are You Ignoring Your Dog?
Hey Dog Lover! Ever feel like your dog is straight-up ignoring you? You call their name, and they keep sniffing. You ask them to sit, and they stare off into the distance. Frustrating, right? But what if the problem isn’t that they’re ignoring you… what if it’s that you’re ignoring who they really are? In this episode, we’re diving deep into how understanding your dog’s unique personality is the key to better communication and a stronger bond. Because once you know why your dog behaves the way they do, you can stop fighting against their instincts and start working with them. We’ll explore: 🐾 Why some dogs seem to ignore commands (and why it's not personal) 🐾 How your dog’s Dogonality shapes how they respond to you 🐾 Simple ways to become more relevant to your dog and finally get their attention 🎯 Next Steps: Want to know how your dog is really wired? Take the Dogonality Quiz and discover how to work with your dog’s natural instincts, not against them! 👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz 🐾 And don’t forget to post your quiz results in the Living Beyond Obedience Group —I’d love to hear what Dogonality your dog falls into and how it’s changing the way you see them! Comment, Share Enjoy! See you next time! Tracy Special thanks to Shawn Trotter for the music. Check out more at www.shawntrotter.com .
17 3月 2025 - 19 분 07 초
82 | Your Dog Questions, Answered! A Special Q Episode
Hey Dog Lover~ Got dog behavior questions? We’ve got answers! 🎤🐾 In this special Q A episode, (Paisley is jumping on the mic with us today!) we tackle some of the most common (and quirky) dog training questions from our Living Beyond Obedience Facebook group and past bootcamps. We’re diving into questions like: ✅ What are subtle but powerful ways to boost my dog’s confidence at home? ✅ How do I help my dog feel safe and calm around cars? ✅ My dog got spooked by a loud noise—now they’re terrified of certain areas. What should I do? ✅ How do I handle my reactive dog when a threat comes out of nowhere? ✅ Is my dog really protecting me, or is there something else going on with their barking at visitors? And much more! If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I handling this the right way?” —this episode is for you. Hope you enjoy this one! Tracy and Paisley 🎙 Got a question for a future Q A? Drop it in the free Living Beyond Obedience Facebook group or message us! 🎵 Music Credit: Special thanks to Shawn Trotter for the music. Check out more of his work at shawntrotter.com .
13 3月 2025 - 45 분 11 초
81 | Why Sit? – When Obedience Lets Your Dog Down
Hey Dog Lover, “Sit!” It’s the go-to command, the first thing we teach our dogs, the magic word that’s supposed to mean they’re well-behaved and under control. But have you ever stopped to ask why we make our dogs sit in certain situations? What if, in some cases, asking your dog to sit is actually making them feel more insecure? Today, we’re diving into why obedience isn’t always the answer —and how sometimes, the very thing we think is helping is actually working against our dogs. In this episode, we’ll talk about: Why obedience should serve a purpose—not just be about compliance. How forcing a sit in uncomfortable situations might be making your dog feel more trapped. The way a leash can interfere with your dog’s natural communication. What to do instead—so your dog feels safe, understood, and supported. Next time you instinctively tell your dog to sit, take a moment and ask yourself why. Are you helping your dog feel more secure, or are you unknowingly making them more vulnerable? Let’s shift the way we think about obedience— because a “good dog” isn’t just an obedient one, but a confident one. See you inside the episode! 🐾 Tracy Next Steps Want to chat more about this? Send me a DM or join my free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience to dive deeper into trust-based training. Need one-on-one support? Book a coaching call and let’s create a plan that works for you and your dog. 🎵 Special thanks to Shawn Trotter of shawntrotter.com for the music!
10 3月 2025 - 31 분 38 초
80 | Stranger Danger! Helping Your Nervous Dog Feel Safe Around House Guests
Hey Dog Lover, Does the thought of having guests over send you into a panic—not because of your guests, but because of your dog? Maybe they bark like a maniac, hide under the table, or pace like they’re planning an escape route. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. Let's talk about what we can do to set our dog up for success and actually enjoy having friends over again. In this episode, we’ll dive into: Why dogs struggle with house guests (hint: it’s not just “stranger danger”). How to set your dog up for success before guests arrive. The do’s and don’ts of first greetings (spoiler: no talking, no forcing, just space!). What to do if your dog freaks out when a guest stands up. How to build your dog’s confidence over time so they don’t just tolerate guests, but actually feel safe around them. This approach is part of my Build Your Brave Protocols inside the Fearful Dog Fearless Framework program. When you join, we can create a step-by-step plan specifically for your dog and your home—because no two dogs are the same! So take a deep breath, and let’s talk about how to make having guests over a whole lot less stressful—for both of you. See you inside the episode! 🐾 Tracy Next Steps Want more guidance? Check out my Fearless Framework program to break the fear cycle and build trust in a way that feels natural and stress-free. Join here . Got questions or need support? Join my free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience for real talk and practical training tips. 🎵 Special thanks to Shawn Trotter of shawntrotter.com for the music!
6 3月 2025 - 31 분 06 초